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a confident, passionate and experienced woman who knows exactly what she wants and is not afraid to go after it. I am deeply immersed in the BDSM and alternative lifestyle and I am seeking a serious, devoted and genuine man who is ready to explore this world with me on a meaningful and committed level. I am not here for games, fantasies or time wasters. I am here for a real, authentic and deeply fulfilling dynamic built on trust, respect and genuine connection. Who I am: ✅ Confident, commanding and self assured ✅ Passionate about the BDSM lifestyle ✅ Deeply loyal and committed to the right person ✅ Intelligent, driven and unapologetically myself Who I am looking for: ✅ A serious and devoted man ready to commit ✅ Someone genuine, honest and emotionally mature ✅ A man who respects boundaries and values trust ✅ Someone ready to explore this lifestyle fully and authentically What to expect: A dynamic built on mutual respect, deep connection and genuine exploration of the lifestyle we both love. If you feel ready to step into my world and prove your sincerity — reach out and introduce yourself properly. Tell me your name, age, location and what you are genuinely seeking. Half hearted interest need not apply.
Female (40) Los Angeles, California
looking for single men born between 2003 and May 2005. No friends or fwb shit 💀. Only if you're worthy of my time, which I can tell quickly. Please do not ask me to message you if you can’t message me. I don’t like blue eyes demons 😂. I want to clarify that I have no interest in finding a guy nearby or in the US, not gonna explain. Setting high standards. 😌 Even one true friend is better than a whole group of NPCs. I’m here for the vibes, maybe some chaos (don’t get too crazy tho), maybe romance, but don’t be fooled. I think guys who are like Supergrass are what I'm looking for. This doesn't mean I'm only into white or light-skinned men. I think I will accept blonde white guys if they have long, beautiful, well-kept hair and are rocker types, but no blue eyes. I think only 10% or less of guys have the personality, attitude, and decision-making I want in a guy. Sad to think about it's likely true. Autistic, unshaved, virgin, can’t drive yet. I think people assume im mean, but I'm only unapproachable because im always in survival mode. Don’t show your face? Bye. Say “I’ll show you in dms”? Double bye. Sensitive? correct. Stupid? not quite. no nudes—I’m not your dropbox. 💅
Female (21) Los Angeles, California
Hello I’m an honest and good Christian who loves being surrounded by family, friends and holidays. I’m ready for a serious relationship and I really look forward to starting that with the right person
Female (48) Los Angeles, California
Im 24 having lots of fun raving, and enjoying my youth! No long distance!!!! Looking for a rave bae, Long term, I miss being in love and loved. Or a long term situationship to go to afters with me, gotta be muscular enough to handle these curves 🤭
I am a sub/middle/babygirl. I am not a masochist but I do like spankings. I am wanting to test my *** tolerance but slowly. I wanna be owned and collared eventually. I'm very into the soft dom dynamic. I also adore pet play. I'm a cute little bunny or kitten depending on the situation. I am looking for a soft sensual primal DD that has a smidge of sadism in him that he springs on me unsuspectingly. One that encourages and plans. Also one that helps me become an overall better me in the process (mentally, physically and emotionally). I am naturally a sub and for me I prefer the 24/7 dynamic because in my everyday life I am in a position where I have to operate in a very masculine energy. For me it’s something about coming home and no longer having to make decisions knowing that your Dom has your best interest at heart ( physical, spiritual, and emotional). I also love, love, love the fact that your wants, needs and requirements are known up front so there is no misunderstanding. Clean test 2/2/26 Kinks: DDlg, Primal, CNC, 1950s housewife, fire play, free use, ANR, spanking, impact, closed triad
Female (47) Los Angeles, California
I'm a genuine, open-minded person who believes that trust, honesty, and communication are the foundation of any meaningful connection. I'm here to meet like-minded people, make real connections, and explore at a pace that feels safe and comfo
Female (38) Los Angeles, California
I’m here just looking to have some fun and for someone to dominate me. I am a bit shy so I need someone who can be sweet but still able to handle my bratty side (;
Please don’t message me anything sexual on the first message that’s an automatic no. Please be respectful. a silly kitten looking for her forever dom. I am an artist in everything I do. I love hiking, road trips, renaissance fairs, nudism, art, music, reading and food. Super geeky and nerdy, love road trips and travel. Have a life goal of fucking in each national park. I’m pretty complex so if you have questions just ask.
Female (40) Los Angeles, California
I like to lead an active lifestyle, do sports, yoga, stretching and love active recreation on quad bikes. I am always open and honest and I appreciate sincerity in relationships. I love to cook and my specialty is pasta with seafood. My energy and passion for life make every day bright and intense, but deep down I dream of finding someone who will share these moments with me.
Female (33) Los Angeles, California
28, curious, and confident. I love deep conversations, laughter that turns into connection, and exploring what makes people tick. Open-minded, grounded, and drawn to experiences that challenge the ordinary. I value honesty, respect, and chemistry — everything else tends to flow from there.
Female (28) Los Angeles, California
Bow down, you've entered my domain. I'm Mistress Samantha, a divine Goddess well respected in the BDSM community. I specialize in tease and control, sensual and erotic play and many more. I have zero interest in any form of relationship besides the D/s have that in mind when contacting me, no casanova or love talks, this is my first rule for my potential subs. I'm a very selective Mistress, hence no one becomes my sub automatically, show me your submissiveness and loyalty to me and if I like what I see then we can go ahead and plan towards your first encounter.
Female (36) Los Angeles, California
Confident, feminine, and unapologetically dominant. I enjoy the tension between control and surrender, the thrill of anticipation, and the art of creating genuine chemistry. My interests extend beyond kink, I appreciate intelligence, wit, ambition, and people who can hold a conversation as well as they can hold eye contact.
Female (40) Los Angeles, California
I am a little submissive bratty princess that loves to play with my stuffies but have no Daddy to play with me and take care of me . Looking for an experienced daddy dominant to get to know that i can treat like a king and he can treat me like a princess. i want to be spoiled and protected. 💖
Female (36) Los Angeles, California
Long story short, I was recently given one year to live. Yes, this is for real.. I just want to fit in as much living as possible within this year. I have been referred to as a "good girl". because I dont cheat im loyal and faithful good wife blah blah blah.. Well now I would like to be a brat maybe, or baby girl order slave oooorrrrr switch.. lol im submissive at heart looking for the right guidance. and I am NOT a skinny Lil thing I have some curves a tummy and possibly a double chin from certain angles. 😂😂 so if your good with that then message me.
Female (40) Los Angeles, California
I genuinely enjoy meeting people and exploring fetishes together. I see fetish and kink as a very normal part of the human condition. I love making peoples fantasies come to life, and get a lot of satisfaction out of creating that perfect scenario. There is no need to be embarrassed with me, I offer no judgement, just an open and safe environment to explore your and my desires. I’m immensely approachable and fun, so you will be able to relax and fully enjoy playing together. As long as you are respectful to Mistress, and Women in general, we will get along just fine.
Female (24) Los Angeles, California
I’m a confident, creative professional who enjoys curating unique experiences that blend elegance, strength, and allure. My work reflects a passion for detail and a love of storytelling, whether through photography, performance, or lifestyle design. I carry both presence and warmth — a balance of commanding energy and inviting charm. I thrive in spaces where creativity and authenticity meet, and I’m always exploring new ways to inspire, connect, and leave a lasting impression. Outside of my work, I enjoy travel, art, and cultivating environments that feel both luxurious and meaningful. Whether in front of the camera, behind the scenes, or creating something entirely new, my passion is turning vision into unforgettable moments.
Female (31) Los Angeles, California
I'm a really fun person to be around. I love meeting new people and trying new things. I need someone who knows what they are doing.
Female (26) Los Angeles, California
Hiya, don't pass me by. I maybe the ideal one you are looking for. I'm a caring old soul, with a loving, kind heart. I have very good manners, so you don't have to worry about me, or apologise. Saying that, I do have old fashioned qualities,
Female (45) Los Angeles, California
I’m looking for a Step Dad/Master/disciplinarian to be his slave step daughter in real life in person only.
Female (39) Los Angeles, California
I have come to learn that I am very submissive by nature. took me a while to get here but I've accepted my fate! I'm looking for a caring but firm Master to teach me further on my journey. Into obedience, s***ch restrictions. control collars and being a good girl.
Female (42) Los Angeles, California
Just looking to make friends or people to talk to, don't message me for ft, nudes or hook-ups unless I know you, Also I'm new to the BDSM life, so if you don't want to be patient with me as I figure it out, I'm probably not the best for you. If you want a face pic, just ask I DONT WANT TO FT OR SIT ON CALL, it makes me uncomfortable Disclaimer: I lag A LOT, I just don't want to think of a response sometimes 😭
Female (20) Los Angeles, California
Just a girl who likes hearing fantasies and what you wanna do and threats for fun I like cnc ddlg and master/slave the most
Female (20) Los Angeles, California
I'm looking for a Dom online and only online. Somebody to teach, train, guide, and keep me accountable in my life and work. I have never played IRL, but I've submitted (and bratted) online for about 20 years now. I am not very comfortable sharing pictures or videos.
Female (36) Los Angeles, California
I just like to have fun. I am into guys of any age and race. love to be tied up, enjoy multiple guys and rough play
Female (28) Los Angeles, California

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I genuinely enjoy meeting people and exploring fetishes together. I see fetish and kink as a very normal part of the human condition. I love making peoples fantasies come to life, and get a lot of satisfaction out of creating that perfect scenario. There is no need to be embarrassed with me, I offer no judgement, just an open and safe environment to explore your and my desires. I’m immensely approachable and fun, so you will be able to relax and fully enjoy playing together. As long as you are respectful to Mistress, and Women in general, we will get along just fine.
Female (24) Los Angeles, California
I'm a genuine, open-minded person who believes that trust, honesty, and communication are the foundation of any meaningful connection. I'm here to meet like-minded people, make real connections, and explore at a pace that feels safe and comfo
Female (38) Los Angeles, California
Confident, feminine, and unapologetically dominant. I enjoy the tension between control and surrender, the thrill of anticipation, and the art of creating genuine chemistry. My interests extend beyond kink, I appreciate intelligence, wit, ambition, and people who can hold a conversation as well as they can hold eye contact.
Female (40) Los Angeles, California
I like to lead an active lifestyle, do sports, yoga, stretching and love active recreation on quad bikes. I am always open and honest and I appreciate sincerity in relationships. I love to cook and my specialty is pasta with seafood. My energy and passion for life make every day bright and intense, but deep down I dream of finding someone who will share these moments with me.
Female (33) Los Angeles, California
Bow down, you've entered my domain. I'm Mistress Samantha, a divine Goddess well respected in the BDSM community. I specialize in tease and control, sensual and erotic play and many more. I have zero interest in any form of relationship besides the D/s have that in mind when contacting me, no casanova or love talks, this is my first rule for my potential subs. I'm a very selective Mistress, hence no one becomes my sub automatically, show me your submissiveness and loyalty to me and if I like what I see then we can go ahead and plan towards your first encounter.
Female (36) Los Angeles, California
Please don’t message me anything sexual on the first message that’s an automatic no. Please be respectful. a silly kitten looking for her forever dom. I am an artist in everything I do. I love hiking, road trips, renaissance fairs, nudism, art, music, reading and food. Super geeky and nerdy, love road trips and travel. Have a life goal of fucking in each national park. I’m pretty complex so if you have questions just ask.
Female (40) Los Angeles, California
I'm looking for a Dom online and only online. Somebody to teach, train, guide, and keep me accountable in my life and work. I have never played IRL, but I've submitted (and bratted) online for about 20 years now. I am not very comfortable sharing pictures or videos.
Female (36) Los Angeles, California
28, curious, and confident. I love deep conversations, laughter that turns into connection, and exploring what makes people tick. Open-minded, grounded, and drawn to experiences that challenge the ordinary. I value honesty, respect, and chemistry — everything else tends to flow from there.
Female (28) Los Angeles, California
a confident, passionate and experienced woman who knows exactly what she wants and is not afraid to go after it. I am deeply immersed in the BDSM and alternative lifestyle and I am seeking a serious, devoted and genuine man who is ready to explore this world with me on a meaningful and committed level. I am not here for games, fantasies or time wasters. I am here for a real, authentic and deeply fulfilling dynamic built on trust, respect and genuine connection. Who I am: ✅ Confident, commanding and self assured ✅ Passionate about the BDSM lifestyle ✅ Deeply loyal and committed to the right person ✅ Intelligent, driven and unapologetically myself Who I am looking for: ✅ A serious and devoted man ready to commit ✅ Someone genuine, honest and emotionally mature ✅ A man who respects boundaries and values trust ✅ Someone ready to explore this lifestyle fully and authentically What to expect: A dynamic built on mutual respect, deep connection and genuine exploration of the lifestyle we both love. If you feel ready to step into my world and prove your sincerity — reach out and introduce yourself properly. Tell me your name, age, location and what you are genuinely seeking. Half hearted interest need not apply.
Female (40) Los Angeles, California
Hiya, don't pass me by. I maybe the ideal one you are looking for. I'm a caring old soul, with a loving, kind heart. I have very good manners, so you don't have to worry about me, or apologise. Saying that, I do have old fashioned qualities,
Female (45) Los Angeles, California
Im 24 having lots of fun raving, and enjoying my youth! No long distance!!!! Looking for a rave bae, Long term, I miss being in love and loved. Or a long term situationship to go to afters with me, gotta be muscular enough to handle these curves 🤭
Hello I’m an honest and good Christian who loves being surrounded by family, friends and holidays. I’m ready for a serious relationship and I really look forward to starting that with the right person
Female (48) Los Angeles, California
Just looking to make friends or people to talk to, don't message me for ft, nudes or hook-ups unless I know you, Also I'm new to the BDSM life, so if you don't want to be patient with me as I figure it out, I'm probably not the best for you. If you want a face pic, just ask I DONT WANT TO FT OR SIT ON CALL, it makes me uncomfortable Disclaimer: I lag A LOT, I just don't want to think of a response sometimes 😭
Female (20) Los Angeles, California
Just a girl who likes hearing fantasies and what you wanna do and threats for fun I like cnc ddlg and master/slave the most
Female (20) Los Angeles, California
I’m a confident, creative professional who enjoys curating unique experiences that blend elegance, strength, and allure. My work reflects a passion for detail and a love of storytelling, whether through photography, performance, or lifestyle design. I carry both presence and warmth — a balance of commanding energy and inviting charm. I thrive in spaces where creativity and authenticity meet, and I’m always exploring new ways to inspire, connect, and leave a lasting impression. Outside of my work, I enjoy travel, art, and cultivating environments that feel both luxurious and meaningful. Whether in front of the camera, behind the scenes, or creating something entirely new, my passion is turning vision into unforgettable moments.
Female (31) Los Angeles, California
I’m here just looking to have some fun and for someone to dominate me. I am a bit shy so I need someone who can be sweet but still able to handle my bratty side (;
I'm a really fun person to be around. I love meeting new people and trying new things. I need someone who knows what they are doing.
Female (26) Los Angeles, California
I am a sub/middle/babygirl. I am not a masochist but I do like spankings. I am wanting to test my *** tolerance but slowly. I wanna be owned and collared eventually. I'm very into the soft dom dynamic. I also adore pet play. I'm a cute little bunny or kitten depending on the situation. I am looking for a soft sensual primal DD that has a smidge of sadism in him that he springs on me unsuspectingly. One that encourages and plans. Also one that helps me become an overall better me in the process (mentally, physically and emotionally). I am naturally a sub and for me I prefer the 24/7 dynamic because in my everyday life I am in a position where I have to operate in a very masculine energy. For me it’s something about coming home and no longer having to make decisions knowing that your Dom has your best interest at heart ( physical, spiritual, and emotional). I also love, love, love the fact that your wants, needs and requirements are known up front so there is no misunderstanding. Clean test 2/2/26 Kinks: DDlg, Primal, CNC, 1950s housewife, fire play, free use, ANR, spanking, impact, closed triad
Female (47) Los Angeles, California
looking for single men born between 2003 and May 2005. No friends or fwb shit 💀. Only if you're worthy of my time, which I can tell quickly. Please do not ask me to message you if you can’t message me. I don’t like blue eyes demons 😂. I want to clarify that I have no interest in finding a guy nearby or in the US, not gonna explain. Setting high standards. 😌 Even one true friend is better than a whole group of NPCs. I’m here for the vibes, maybe some chaos (don’t get too crazy tho), maybe romance, but don’t be fooled. I think guys who are like Supergrass are what I'm looking for. This doesn't mean I'm only into white or light-skinned men. I think I will accept blonde white guys if they have long, beautiful, well-kept hair and are rocker types, but no blue eyes. I think only 10% or less of guys have the personality, attitude, and decision-making I want in a guy. Sad to think about it's likely true. Autistic, unshaved, virgin, can’t drive yet. I think people assume im mean, but I'm only unapproachable because im always in survival mode. Don’t show your face? Bye. Say “I’ll show you in dms”? Double bye. Sensitive? correct. Stupid? not quite. no nudes—I’m not your dropbox. 💅
Female (21) Los Angeles, California
Long story short, I was recently given one year to live. Yes, this is for real.. I just want to fit in as much living as possible within this year. I have been referred to as a "good girl". because I dont cheat im loyal and faithful good wife blah blah blah.. Well now I would like to be a brat maybe, or baby girl order slave oooorrrrr switch.. lol im submissive at heart looking for the right guidance. and I am NOT a skinny Lil thing I have some curves a tummy and possibly a double chin from certain angles. 😂😂 so if your good with that then message me.
Female (40) Los Angeles, California
I have come to learn that I am very submissive by nature. took me a while to get here but I've accepted my fate! I'm looking for a caring but firm Master to teach me further on my journey. Into obedience, s***ch restrictions. control collars and being a good girl.
Female (42) Los Angeles, California
I’m looking for a Step Dad/Master/disciplinarian to be his slave step daughter in real life in person only.
Female (39) Los Angeles, California
I am a little submissive bratty princess that loves to play with my stuffies but have no Daddy to play with me and take care of me . Looking for an experienced daddy dominant to get to know that i can treat like a king and he can treat me like a princess. i want to be spoiled and protected. 💖
Female (36) Los Angeles, California
“Oh I leave quite an impression, 4’9 to be exact” 💜✨ My name is Mimi, and it’s my pleasure to meet you! My boyfriend has given me his full permission to go ahead and explore my sexuality, and I’d love to explore it with you! I love anime, cosplay, and all things nerdy! I love a good trip to Universal Studios or Disneyland, but more-so, I love to make the people I love laugh and smile! As for my kinky side, I’d consider myself a little or a middle looking for a Daddy Dom. I’m looking for someone trusting and kind, gentle and compassionate, and someone who matches me on an emotional level. Hopefully, this person is you! Let me sing “Phantom of the Opera” or “Wicked” for you!
Female (23) Los Angeles, California

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